Tuesday, August 3, 2010
"No, thank you."
Of course, I also thanked her for the honor, but after hearing about the opportunity and some of the details about the time commitment involved, I just knew that I couldn't dedicate the kind of effort that this project needed. If I had said yes, it would have been detrimental to the project, the group, and to my own reputation. It just didn't fit right now.
Now, please understand, I think that giving value is the only way to grow your network. That said, though, you do still have only twenty-four hours in the day. If the value you are giving is taking away from time spent with your spouse, your children, or your health, then you really need to consider whether you can afford to do so.
As the airline instructions say: "Put on your own mask first." Only when your own life is in balance can you hope to be of true service to others.
Photo credit: Billy Alexander